A Very Old Black Dog

May 27th, 2008

When I was running tonight my mind, as usual, was bouncing all around. Somewhere in the flotsam and jetsam of thoughts my dog Marley came to mind. He’s the exact opposite of my other black dog.

Marley

We named him Marley because he’s a Rasta dog. Cool and easy going. He’s a very old black dog. He will turn 17 this July. I’ve never had a dog this old. For the last three years it was in the back of my mind that this will be his last Thanksgiving, Christmas, Winter, Spring, etc. but it never was. We should have named him Timex.

My daughter found him as a puppy wondering around in an alley and didn’t have to do much begging for us to take him home. He was everything our other dog wasn’t, namely calm, gentle and very smart. He was so black that in early photos you can hardly make out his features but now there’s virtually no place on his body that doesn’t have some white hair.

My daughter has always loved animals and one of her favorite games when she was little was one she made up called “dog catcher”. She and her brothers would pretend to be dogs and they would hide while I was the mean dog catcher who would round them up & put them in the dog pen. They would of course escape as soon as my back was turned.

Marley loved this game and got so excited he would growl and bark and run along side of me to find them. He loved to play.

When we’d go to the school park Marley always came along. He’d climb the slide and go down with everyone. If we’d play baseball, Marley would play center field and bring a rather slobbery ball back to us.

Marley on slideIf I pretended to be a bad guy and walked towards my son or daughter with my hands raised and fingers curled threateningly, Marley would quickly run to their defense and position himself in front of them, staring me down and growling. If I dared to reach in to grab them, he would grab my arm in his mouth with his eyes wide and growl even louder. His way of saying “Don’t even think about it.”

He could balance a Milkbone like no one’s business. Roll over on command, no problem. I could cock my finger and turn my hand into a gun and he would drop over at ‘Bang’. With a wave of your hand he would say his prayers. Wave the other way and he would back up.

Shedding aside, he’s the perfect dog.

Now he’s about 10 pounds lighter, full of white hair and various bumps and growths that I can only imagine are tumors. When he sleeps, he looks like a puddle of fur poured in his bed. His eyes are cloudy and he can’t hear so good. Slick wooden floors and steps are not his friend.

Marley on slideHe loves to hang around me in the yard looking for rocks, bones or pieces of wood to bury. He’s happiest when there’s dirt on his nose. If his nose ever failed him I don’t know how he’d get around. He uses it to navigate his increasingly smaller world. Despite all this, his tail is ever wagging. He’s always happy.

He inspires me to accept whatever life brings me. To be myself. To be happy for another day even when I don’t feel so good & it’s hard to pull myself out of bed. To love and accept myself & others warts and all . . . and always be glad to see loved ones.

He’s my kind of black dog.

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7 Responses to “A Very Old Black Dog”

  1. RoasterBoy Says:

    We, too, have a black dog named Marley, age 12. He’s a great comfort and works wonders to chase the other black dog from our lives.

  2. Cosmo - the black dog! Says:

    Thanks for sharing that RoasterBoy. Your Marley looks like a great dog.

  3. Lisa Says:

    There IS something about dogs’ spirit. I do want to come back as one. Gosh, someone needs to bottle whatever makes dogs go and sell it. I would take it every morning!

  4. Cosmo - the black dog! Says:

    That makes two of us Lisa!

  5. zania Says:

    I agree with Lisa, there is something about dog’s spirit I would like to bottle too!
    We have three dogs - 2 rescues and one stray - and they all have such different personalities they are a joy to watch.
    I think dogs can bring out the very best in us because they are so loyal and understanding of all our frailties.
    Oh yes, and someone I know has a young daughter called Marly (and yes, after Bob, but with a female twist).

  6. Cosmo - the black dog! Says:

    Zania,

    Your friend’s daughter must be a Rasta girl - cool and laid back?! Or maybe they named her that hoping it would rub off. It’s a great name.

    Dogs are the best although the one cat I had was pretty cool but then again he was more like a dog. Charlie would great me at the door and fetch balls like a dog.

  7. zania Says:

    Yes, she is cool and laid back (as laid back as a 6 year old can be anyway ), so they chose the name well.
    She does get some probing questions about the name sometimes though, like: “so your parents like Bob Marley then…?” I guess her teachers have other ideas about why her parents chose that name… :)

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